Currently, we copy the mtime and ctime to the in-core inode and then
mark the inode dirty. This is fine for certain types of filesystems, but
not all. Some require a real setattr to properly change these values
(e.g. ceph or reexported NFS).

Fix this code to call notify_change() instead, which is the proper way
to effect a setattr. There is one problem though:

In this case, the client is holding a write delegation and has sent us
attributes to update our cache. We don't want to break the delegation
for this since that would defeat the purpose. Add a new ATTR_DELEG flag
that makes notify_change bypass the try_break_deleg call.

Fixes: c5967721 ("NFSD: handle GETATTR conflict with write delegation")
Reviewed-by: Christian Brauner <brauner@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Layton <jlayton@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>