Use an async exchange id call to test for session trunking

To conform with RFC 5661 section 18.35.4, the Non-Update on
Existing Clientid case, save the exchange id verifier in
cl_confirm and use it for the session trunking exhange id test.
Signed-off-by: Andy Adamson <andros@netapp.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>