When freeing in a shrinker callback, we need to notify memory reclaim,
so it knows forward progress has been made.

Normally this is done in e.g. slab code, but we're not freeing through
slab - or rather we are, but these allocations are big, and use the
kmalloc_large() path.

This is really a bug in the slub code, but we're working around it here
for now.
Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>