nvme-rdma: Make sure to shutdown the controller if we can

Relying on ctrl state in nvme_rdma_shutdown_ctrl is wrong because
it will never be NVME_CTRL_LIVE (delete_ctrl or reset_ctrl invoked it).

Instead, check that the admin queue is connected. Note that it is safe
because we can never see a copmeting thread trying to destroy the admin
queue (reset or delete controller).
Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>

drivers/nvme/host/rdma.c

@@ -1646,7 +1646,7 @@ static void nvme_rdma_shutdown_ctrl(struct nvme_rdma_ctrl *ctrl)
 		nvme_rdma_free_io_queues(ctrl);
 	}
 
-	if (ctrl->ctrl.state == NVME_CTRL_LIVE)
+	if (test_bit(NVME_RDMA_Q_CONNECTED, &ctrl->queues[0].flags))
 		nvme_shutdown_ctrl(&ctrl->ctrl);
 
 	blk_mq_stop_hw_queues(ctrl->ctrl.admin_q);