Fix for Bug#31173: mysqlslap.exe crashes if called without any parameters

.bzrignore:
  Fixed .bzrignore rules. Many were simply not ignoring what they were meant to.
client/mysqlslap.c:
  Fixed bug for Bug#31173: mysqlslap.exe crashes if called without any parameters
  The original patch could cause memory leaks and odd problems depending on how connection was made.
  This code ensures that all mysql_options() are set for each mysql_real_connect().
  (This patch by Monty)
mysys/my_thr_init.c:
  Fixed multiply-initialized critical section on Windows, due to code incorrectly
  checking the wrong field in an attempt to prevent multiple-initialization.
sql-common/client.c:
  Don't use shared memory if it's not set (for example after failed mysql_real_connect).
  Ensure that mysql_close() resets all resources so that it's safe to call it twice.
  (Patch by monty, related to Bug#31173: mysqlslap.exe crashes if called without any parameters)
sql/CMakeLists.txt:
   Added page fault counters for SHOW PROFILE on Windows.
sql/mysqld.cc:
  Fixed attempt to set a NULL event. The code now only sets the event if appropriate (i.e. shared memory is being used)
sql/sql_profile.cc:
  Added page fault counters for SHOW PROFILE on Windows.
sql/sql_profile.h:
  Added page fault counters for SHOW PROFILE on Windows.
sql/udf_example.def:
  Some cleanup functions were not exported from udf_example.dll, causing them to
  never be executed, and as a result multiple-initialization of kernel objects
  occurred and resources were not being freed correctly.
storage/maria/ma_close.c:
  Condition variable share->key_del_cond was never being destroyed, while its
  containing heap block was being freed in maria_close(), leaking kernel
  resources.