After MDEV-30830 has added block-nl-join.r_unpack_time_ms, it became
apparent that there is some unaccounted-for time in BNL join operation,
namely the time that is spent after unpacking the join buffer record.

Fix this by adding a Gap_time_tracker to track the time that is spent
after unpacking the join buffer record and before any next time tracking.
The collected time is printed in block-nl-join.r_other_time_ms.

Reviewed by: Monty <monty@mariadb.org>