trx_purge_truncate_history(): Only call trx_purge_truncate_rseg_history()
if the rollback segment is safe to process. This will avoid leaking undo
log pages that are not yet ready to be processed. This fixes a regression
that was introduced in
commit 0de3be8c (MDEV-30671).

trx_sys_t::any_active_transactions(): Separately count XA PREPARE
transactions.

srv_purge_should_exit(): Terminate slow shutdown if the history size
does not change and XA PREPARE transactions exist in the system.
This will avoid a hang of the test innodb.recovery_shutdown.

Tested by: Matthias Leich