Add better handling of GCP Stop
    Only kill "offending" node


storage/ndb/src/kernel/blocks/ERROR_codes.txt:
  add new error codes
storage/ndb/src/kernel/blocks/dbdih/Dbdih.hpp:
  add better GCP stop handling
storage/ndb/src/kernel/blocks/dbdih/DbdihMain.cpp:
  add better GCP stop handling