concurrent I_S query

There were two problem:
1) MYSQL_LOCK_IGNORE_FLUSH also ignored name locks
2) there was a race between abort_and_upgrade_locks and
   alter_close_tables
   (i.e. remove_table_from_cache and
    close_data_files_and_morph_locks)

Which allowed the table to be opened with MYSQL_LOCK_IGNORE_FLUSH flag
resulting in renaming a partition that was already in use,
which could cause the table to be unusable.

Solution was to not allow IGNORE_FLUSH to skip waiting for
a named locked table.

And to not release the LOCK_open mutex between the
calls to remove_table_from_cache and
close_data_files_and_morph_locks by merging the functions
abort_and_upgrade_locks and alter_close_tables.