The issue was that best_extension_by_limited_search() had to go through
too many plans with the same cost as there where many EQ_REF tables.

Fixed by shortcutting EQ_REF (AND REF) when the result only contains one
row. This got the optimization time down from hours to sub seconds.

The only known downside with this patch is that in some cases a table
with ref and 1 record may be used before on EQ_REF table. The faster
optimzation phase should compensate for this.