When a deadlock kill is detected inside the storage engine, the kill
is not done immediately, to avoid calling back into the storage engine
kill_query method with various lock subsystem mutexes held. Instead the
kill is queued and done later by a slave background thread.

This patch in preparation for fixing TokuDB optimistic parallel
replication, as well as for removing locking hacks in InnoDB/XtraDB in
10.2.

Signed-off-by: Kristian Nielsen <knielsen at knielsen-hq.org>