Fixed bug that MAX_USER_CONNECTIONS was not working properly in all situations (which could cause aborted connects)
thd->user_connect is now handled in thd->clenup() which will ensure that it works in all context (including slaves).
I added also some DBUG_ASSERT() to ensure that things are working correctly.


sql/sql_acl.cc:
  Reset thd->user_connect on failed check_for_max_user_connections() to ensure we don't decrement value twice.
  Removed not needed call to decrease_user_connections() as thd->cleanup() will now do it.
sql/sql_class.cc:
  Call decrease_user_connections() in thd->cleanup()
sql/sql_connect.cc:
  Ensure we don't allocate thd->user_connect twice.
  Simplify check_for_max_user_connections().
sql/sql_parse.cc:
  Ensure that thd->user_connect is handled properly in for 'change_user' command.