BUG#38559 Annoying cygwin problem fixed by resolving  pid->winpid before kill instead of just after fork

WL4189 Add Handles.pm and use it from My::File::Path to show open handles. Rewrite rmtree to use File::Find so we can get better debug printouts when something fails

- Updated slow_query_log_file_basic and general_log_file basis instead of the func version as
the func version run good but the basic versions fail.
- Sent innodb.test to dev@innodb.com.
- variables.test has differences probably due to a bug in mtr or in the SET statement (see bug#39369).
- general_log_file_basic.test and slow_query_log_file_bsaic.test have differences, which might be 
produced by the new mtr (see bug#38124).

 - fix scheduler bug

mysql-test/suite/rpl/t/disabled.def:
   disable test

mysql-test/mysql-test-run.pl:
  Don't bother to remove particular files from the datadir, based on what 
  config parameters are available. Just remove whole datadir

 - Rearrange spawn worker code

mysql-test/mysql-test-run.pl:
   - Rearrange the spawning of workers to make it possible to not
     spawn more workers than number of tests to run
   - This also make it enough to parse args in the main thread