Represent decref/xdecref operations as opaque functions calls.
I think the ideal solution would be to add a custom llvm intrinsic,
but I spent a small amount of time looking into that and had trouble
figuring out how to do that.

So instead, just emit them as patchpoints, and then patch them afterwards
with a fixed code sequence.

This commit only does this for decref/xdecref because:
- they occur much more frequently
- they are much more expensive to jit since they involve control flow
- forcing the op to fit a C-calling-convention isn't that much overhead,
  since the register allocator probably would have done that anyway due
  to the (potential) dealloc call.