slaprunner: do not force instantiation of all partitions

This is important for performance and it enables testless promises.

For partitions that are instantiated successfully, let slapos decide
when there's no parameter change (usually once a day).

Instantiation can be forced on manual action in the UI.

software/slaprunner/buildout.hash.cfg

@@ -18,7 +18,7 @@ md5sum = c44a7481bb85e3258128afe3fcf23f44
 
 [template-runner]
 filename = instance-runner.cfg
-md5sum = a5e2ae493b78a0f42d61cc79a0b2e686
+md5sum = 48bff0b5f082f22d44966b1151f07133
 
 [template-runner-import-script]
 filename = template/runner-import.sh.jinja2

software/slaprunner/instance-runner.cfg

@@ -794,7 +794,7 @@ ip = $${slaprunner:ipv4}
 server = $${:ip}:$${:port}
 port = 39986
 slapgrid-cp = slapgrid-cp
-slapgrid-cp-command = $${slaprunner:slapos} node instance --all --cfg $${:slapos-cfg} --verbose --logfile $${:slapgrid-cp-log}
+slapgrid-cp-command = $${slaprunner:slapos} node instance --cfg $${:slapos-cfg} --verbose --logfile $${:slapgrid-cp-log}
 slapgrid-cp-log = $${runnerdirectory:home}/instance.log
 slapgrid-cp-startretries = 0
 slapgrid-sr = slapgrid-sr