--user=root is redundant and it will break with MariaDB 10.4

This is important for performance and it enables testless promises.

For partitions that are instantiated successfully, let slapos decide
when there's no parameter change (usually once a day).

Instantiation can be forced on manual action in the UI.

Remove method `generateHashFromFiles` in all file `test.py`, import it from `slapos.recipe.librecipe`.

/reviewed-on nexedi/slapos!617

/reviewed-on nexedi/slapos!611

This turnserver work on IPv6 but to allow communication with all devices, external-ip parameter is used to set public IPv4 which will be used by client.

/reviewed-on !610

Caddy and ATS shall have same timeouts for the requests.

It defaults to 600s, which is good reasonable chosen before.

ATS by default tries 4 times (1 non configurable, 3 retries) a given query to
the backend. Despite of "connection" in the name, ATS waits for first byte
from the backend, and it means that backend might already processing the
request, just no bytes are sent. In order to avoid this allow ATS to try only
once.