in gevent.ares module:
 - rename ares_channel to channel
 - rename ares_strerror() to ares.strerror()
 - remove _strerror()
 - do not use gevent_handle_error C function, use loop.handle_error
 - do not use loop and io watcher definitions (use Python calls instead of fast vtab calls)

add python.pxd with a few common python functions
do not include c-ares stuff, compile it separately
add inet_ntop.c to gevent/ since it's not exported by c-ares and we use it

make ares extension optional - retry setup.py command if it failed

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rename : gevent/cares.pxi => gevent/ares.pyx