All but the newest MacOS versions (xnu-4570.1.46 / High Sierra)
lack utimensat() and UTIME_OMIT, see:
https://github.com/apple/darwin-xnu/blame/0a798f6738bc1db01281fc08ae024145e84df927/bsd/sys/stat.h#L537

The UTIME_OMIT value is intepreted literally by MacOS, resulting
in all files getting a 1970 timestamp
( https://github.com/rfjakob/gocryptfs/issues/229 ).

Emulate UTIME_OMIT by filling in the missing values
using an extra GetAttr call.

To not duplicate the logic in pathfs and nodefs, an
internal "utimens" helper package is created.

This patch fixes the failing utimens tests.