Follow the recommandation from RFC 8422, section 5.1.2 of sending back the
ec_points_format extension when requested by the client. This is to fix
some clients declining the handshake if omitted.

Fixes #31943

Change-Id: I7b04dbac6f9af75cda094073defe081e1e9a295d
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/176418
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Reviewed-by: Olivier Poitrey <rs@rhapsodyk.net>
Reviewed-by: Filippo Valsorda <filippo@golang.org>
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