Revert "cmd/compile, cmd/link, runtime: make defers low-cost through inline code and extra funcdata"

This reverts CL 190098.

Reason for revert: broke several builders.

Change-Id: I69161352f9ded02537d8815f259c4d391edd9220
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/201519
Run-TryBot: Bryan C. Mills <bcmills@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Austin Clements <austin@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Dan Scales <danscales@google.com>