On Linux, adding a socket descriptor to epoll instance before getting
the EINPROGRESS return value from connect system call could be a root
cause of spurious on-connect events.

See golang.org/issue/8276, golang.org/issue/8426 for further information.

All credit to Jason Eggleston <jason@eggnet.com>

Fixes #8276.
Fixes #8426.

LGTM=dvyukov
R=dvyukov, golang-codereviews, adg, dave, iant, alex.brainman
CC=golang-codereviews
https://golang.org/cl/120820043