__bch2_btree_write_buffer_flush() now assumes a write ref is already
held (as called by the transaction commit path); and the wrappers
bch2_write_buffer_flush() and flush_sync() take an explicit write ref.

This means internally the write buffer code can always use
BTREE_INSERT_NOCHECK_RW, instead of in the previous code passing flags
around and hoping the NOCHECK_RW flag was always carried around
correctly.
Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>