Introduce bpf_link__update_map(), which allows to atomically update
underlying struct_ops implementation for given struct_ops BPF link.

Also add old_map_fd to struct bpf_link_update_opts to handle
BPF_F_REPLACE feature.
Signed-off-by: Kui-Feng Lee <kuifeng@meta.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230323032405.3735486-7-kuifeng@meta.comSigned-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <martin.lau@kernel.org>