After the prep work in the previous patches,
this patch removes most of the dup code from bpf_setsockopt(SOL_SOCKET)
and reuses them from sk_setsockopt().

The sock ptr test is added to the SO_RCVLOWAT because
the sk->sk_socket could be NULL in some of the bpf hooks.

The existing optname white-list is refactored into a new
function sol_socket_setsockopt().
Reviewed-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <kafai@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220817061804.4178920-1-kafai@fb.comSigned-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>