This fixes a bug where copygc would occasionally race with going
read-write and die, thinking we were read only, because it couldn't take
a ref on c->writes.

It's not necessary for copygc (or rebalance, or copygc) to take write
refs; they could run with BCH_TRANS_COMMIT_nocheck_rw, but this is an
easier fix that making sure that flag is passed correctly everywhere.
Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>