Suspend fbdev sooner, and disable user access before suspending to
prevent some races. I've noticed this when comparing xe suspend to
i915's.

Matches the following commits from i915:
24b412b1 ("drm/i915: Disable intel HPD poll after DRM poll init/enable")
1ef28d86 ("drm/i915: Suspend the framebuffer console earlier during system suspend")
bd738d85 ("drm/i915: Prevent modesets during driver init/shutdown")

Thanks to Imre for pointing me to those commits.

Driver shutdown is currently missing, but I have some idea how to
implement it next.
Signed-off-by: Maarten Lankhorst <maarten.lankhorst@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Imre Deak <imre.deak@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Uma Shankar <uma.shankar@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20240806105044.596842-2-maarten.lankhorst@linux.intel.comSigned-off-by: Maarten Lankhorst,,, <maarten.lankhorst@linux.intel.com>