(cherry picked from commit 7bb21d68)

A connection's socket can close for any reason, independent of the
state of the connection (and without irrespective of the connection
mutex).  As a result, the connectino can be in pretty much any state
at the time its socket is closed.

Handle those other cases at the top of con_work().  Pull this whole
block of code into a separate function to reduce the clutter.
Signed-off-by: Alex Elder <elder@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>