Make IPoIB's send and receive queue sizes tunable via module
parameters ("send_queue_size" and "recv_queue_size").  This allows the
queue sizes to be enlarged to fix disastrously bad performance on some
platforms and workloads, without bloating memory usage when large
queues aren't needed.
Signed-off-by: Shirley Ma <xma@us.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>