Move udp->encap_enabled to udp->udp_flags.

Add udp_test_and_set_bit() helper to allow lockless
udp_tunnel_encap_enable() implementation.
Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Willem de Bruijn <willemb@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>