__md_stop_writes() and __md_stop() will modify many fields that are
protected by 'reconfig_mutex', and all the callers will grab
'reconfig_mutex' except for md_stop().

Also, update md_stop() to make certain 'reconfig_mutex' is held using
lockdep_assert_held().

Fixes: 9d09e663 ("dm: raid456 basic support")
Signed-off-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Snitzer <snitzer@kernel.org>