In normal operation, the XFS convention is to take an inode's iolock
and then allocate a transaction.  However, when scrubbing parent inodes
this is inverted -- we allocated the transaction to do the scrub, and
now we're trying to grab the parent's iolock.  This can lead to ABBA
deadlocks: some thread grabbed the parent's iolock and is waiting for
space for a transaction while our parent scrubber is sitting on a
transaction trying to get the parent's iolock.

Therefore, convert all iolock attempts to use trylock; if that fails,
they can use the existing mechanisms to back off and try again.

The ABBA deadlock didn't happen with a non-repair scrub because the
transactions don't reserve any space, but repair scrubs require
reservation in order to update metadata.  However, any other concurrent
metadata update (e.g. directory create in the parent) could also induce
this deadlock with the parent scrubber.
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Brian Foster <bfoster@redhat.com>