iw_cxgb4: use the MPA initiator's IRD if < our ORD

The i40iw initiator sends an MPA-request with ird=16 and ord=16. The cxgb4
responder sends an MPA-reply with ord = 32 causing i40iw to terminate
due to insufficient resources.

The logic to reduce the ORD to <= peer's IRD was wrong.
Reported-by: Shiraz Saleem <shiraz.saleem@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Steve Wise <swise@opengridcomputing.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>

drivers/infiniband/hw/cxgb4/cm.c

@@ -3140,7 +3140,7 @@ int c4iw_accept_cr(struct iw_cm_id *cm_id, struct iw_cm_conn_param *conn_param)
 	if (ep->mpa_attr.version == 2 && ep->mpa_attr.enhanced_rdma_conn) {
 		if (conn_param->ord > ep->ird) {
 			if (RELAXED_IRD_NEGOTIATION) {
-				ep->ord = ep->ird;
+				conn_param->ord = ep->ird;
 			} else {
 				ep->ird = conn_param->ird;
 				ep->ord = conn_param->ord;