server-tools/instance-manager/buffer.cc:
  use my_realloc instead of realloc
server-tools/instance-manager/buffer.h:
  use my_malloc instead of malloc
server-tools/instance-manager/commands.cc:
  No need to send a buffer if there were some error while writing to it
server-tools/instance-manager/instance_options.cc:
  cleanup
server-tools/instance-manager/manager.cc:
  check sigwait return value
server-tools/instance-manager/parse_output.cc:
  fixed a bug, found with valgrind