- Don't use SAFEMALLOC on valgrind builds (slows things down)
- Added back lost option from 5.3: debug-mutex-deadlock-detector
- Flush pages before taking lock mutex (speeds up closing of Aria tables).

BUILD/SETUP.sh:
  - Don't use SAFEMALLOC on valgrind builds (slows things down)
sql/lock.cc:
  Make default argument explicit (improves readability)
sql/mysqld.cc:
  Removed compiler warnings
  Sorted debug options alphabetically
  Added back lost option from 5.3: debug-mutex-deadlock-detector
storage/maria/ma_close.c:
  Flush pages before taking lock mutex (speeds up closing of Aria tables).
storage/maria/ma_open.c:
  More DBUG_PRINT
storage/maria/maria_def.h:
  Better DBUG_PRINT
storage/maria/trnman.c:
  Better DBUG_PRINT