LOCK_THREAD_COUNT

When using the performance schema file io instrumentation in MySQL 5.5,
a thread would loop forever inside lf_pinbox_put_pins, when disconnecting.
It would also hold LOCK_thread_count while doing so, effectively killing the
server.

The root cause of the loop in lf_pinbox_put_pins() is a leak of LF_PINS,
when used with the filename_hash LF_HASH table in the performance schema.

This fix contains the following changes:

1)
Added the missing call to lf_hash_search_unpin(), to prevent the leak.

2)
In mysys/lf_alloc-pin.c, there was some extra debugging code
(MY_LF_EXTRA_DEBUG) written to detect precisely this kind of issues,
but it was never used.
Replaced MY_LF_EXTRA_DEBUG with DBUG_OFF, so that leaks similar to this one
can be always detected in regular debug builds.

3)
Backported the fix for the following bug, from 5.6 to 5.5:
Bug#13417446 - 63339: INCORRECT FILE PATH IN PEFORMANCE_SCHEMA ON WINDOWS