MDEV-5262, MDEV-5914, MDEV-5941, MDEV-6020: Deadlocks during parallel...

MDEV-5262, MDEV-5914, MDEV-5941, MDEV-6020: Deadlocks during parallel replication causing replication to fail.

Fix a bug discovered in Buildbot valgrind. The logic in checking for slave
init thread completion was reversed, so depending on thread scheduling server
startup could hang.

Also add another variant of SSL valgrind suppression, needed for different
library version.

mysql-test/valgrind.supp

@@ -1137,6 +1137,17 @@
 }
 
 
+{
+   OpenSSL still reachable.
+   Memcheck:Leak
+   fun:*alloc
+   fun:CRYPTO_malloc
+   obj:*libssl*
+   fun:SSL_COMP_get_compression_methods
+   fun:SSL_library_init
+}
+
+
 {
   Problem with udf and libresolve
   Memcheck:Cond

sql/slave.cc

@@ -349,7 +349,7 @@ run_slave_init_thread()
   }
 
   mysql_mutex_lock(&LOCK_slave_init);
-  while (!slave_init_thread_running)
+  while (slave_init_thread_running)
     mysql_cond_wait(&COND_slave_init, &LOCK_slave_init);
   mysql_mutex_unlock(&LOCK_slave_init);