File systems like virtio-fs need to do not have to play directly with
forget list data structures. There is a helper function use that instead.

Rename dequeue_forget() to fuse_dequeue_forget() and export it so that
stacked filesystems can use it.
Signed-off-by: Vivek Goyal <vgoyal@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>