Allow NVMF_OPT_NR_WRITE_QUEUES to describe additional write queues.  In
addition, implement .map_queues that will apply 2 queue maps for read
and write queue sets.

Note that with the separate queue map, HCTX_TYPE_READ will always use
nr_io_queues and HCTX_TYPE_DEFAULT will use nr_write_queues.
Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>