Use ib_cm_insert_listen to create listening IB CM IDs or share existing
ones if needed. When given a request on a specific CM ID, the code now
matches the request to the RDMA CM ID based on the request parameters, so
it no longer needs to rely on the ib_cm's private data matching
capabilities.
Signed-off-by: Haggai Eran <haggaie@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>