The server's callback client should stop trying to connect to the
client's callback server as soon as it gets ECONNREFUSED.

The NFS server's callback client does not call rpc_ping(), but appears
to have it's own "ping" procedure, so it wasn't covered by commit
caabea8a.
Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@citi.umich.edu>