The Linux side of EEH is triggered by MMIO reads, but this
driver's data path does not issue any MMIO reads (except in
legacy interrupt mode).  Therefore add a monitor function
to poll EEH periodically.

When preparing to reset the device based on our own error
detection, also poll EEH and defer to its recovery mechanism
if appropriate.

[bwh: Use a separate condition for the initial link poll; fix some
 style errors]
Signed-off-by: Ben Hutchings <bhutchings@solarflare.com>