Error headers are shorter than either RDMA_MSG or RDMA_NOMSG.

Since HDRLEN_MIN is already used in several other places that would
be annoying to change, add RPCRDMA_HDRLEN_ERR for the one or two
spots where the shorter length is needed.
Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Devesh Sharma <devesh.sharma@broadcom.com>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagig@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>