Now that the header always goes first, it is possible to
simplify rds_ib_xmit. Instead of having a path to handle 0-byte
dgrams and another path to handle >0, these can both be handled
in one path. This lets us eliminate xmit_populate_wr().

Rename sent to bytes_sent, to differentiate better from other
variable named "send".
Signed-off-by: Andy Grover <andy.grover@oracle.com>