dict_table_t::parse_name(): Properly calculate the *tbl_name_len.

A failure was easily repeatable during the test
innodb.innodb-alter-debug for the table name test.① ("test/@2460").
The UTF-8 representation of the U+2460 is only 3 bytes "\xe2\x91\xa0"
while the filename-safe encoded counterpart of it in dict_table_t::name
is 5 bytes "@2460".

This bug, introduced by commit ea37b144
(MDEV-16678), could cause a purge task to hang.