No test case, since the bug requires a stress case with 30 INSERT DELAYED
threads and 1 killer thread to repeat. The patch is verified
manually.
Review fixes.

The server that is running DELAYED inserts would deadlock itself
or crash under high load if some of the delayed threads were KILLed
in the meanwhile.

The fix is to change internal lock acquisition order of delayed inserts
subsystem and to ensure that
Delayed_insert::table_list::db does not point to volatile memory in some 
cases.
For details, please see a comment for sql_insert.cc.