When installing plugins, there is a missing check
for slash (/) in the path on Windows. Note that on
Windows, both / and \ can be used to separate
directories.

This patch fixes the issue by:
- Adding a FN_DIRSEP symbol for all platforms
  consisting of a string of legal directory
  separators.
- Adding a charset-aware version of strcspn().
- Adding a check_valid_path() function that uses
  my_strcspn() to check if any FN_DIRSEP character
  is in the supplied string.
- Using the check_valid_path() function in
  sql_plugin.cc and sql_udf.cc (which means
  replacing the existing test there).

include/config-netware.h:
  Adding FN_DIRSEP
  ******
  Adding FN_DIRSEP
include/config-win.h:
  Adding FN_DIRSEP
  ******
  Adding FN_DIRSEP
include/m_ctype.h:
  Adding my_strspn() and my_strcspn().
  
  ******
  Adding my_strspn() and my_strcspn().
include/my_global.h:
  Adding FN_DIRSEP
  ******
  Adding FN_DIRSEP
mysql-test/t/plugin_not_embedded.test:
  Adding test that file names containing / is
  disallowed on *all* platforms.
  ******
  Adding test that file names containing / is
  disallowed on *all* platforms.
sql/sql_plugin.cc:
  Introducing check_if_path() function for
  checking if filename is a path to include
  / on Windows.
  ******
  Introducing check_if_path() function for
  checking if filename is a path to include
  / on Windows.
sql/sql_udf.cc:
  Switching to use check_if_path() function.
  ******
  Switching to use check_if_path() function.
strings/my_strchr.c:
  Adding my_strspn() and my_strcspn().
  ******
  Adding my_strspn() and my_strcspn().