Enable IM in the binary distribution and fix Bug #9513 (mysql.server script from the binary distibution
doesn't work out of the box)


client/Makefile.am:
  old mysqlmanager, mysqlmanagerc and mysqlmanager-pwgen renamed into mysqltestmanager, mysqltestmanagerc and
  mysqltestmanager-pwgen respectively
mysql-test/mysql-test-run.sh:
  Old mysqlmanager, mysqlmanagerc and mysqlmanager-pwgen renamed into
  mysqltestmanager, mysqltestmanagerc and mysqltestmanager-pwgen respectively
scripts/make_binary_distribution.sh:
  Fix the script to include IM and process mysql.server correctly
server-tools/instance-manager/Makefile.am:
  change default socket name to follow mysqld style (and thus, fix the ptoblem with non-existant localstatedir
  in the binary distribution)
support-files/mysql.spec.sh:
  Fix mysql.spec template to reflect the name change
tools/Makefile.am:
  old mysqlmanager renamed into mysqltestmanager