MDEV-14642 Assertion 'table->s->db_create_options == part_table->s->db_create_options' failed in compare_table_with_partition

When trying to execute ALTER TABLE EXCHANGE PARTITION with different
definitions, assertion

    table->s->db_create_options == part_table->s->db_create_options

failed in compare_table_with_partition().

However, this execution should not be allowed since executing
'exchange partition' requires the identical structure of the two tables.

To fix the problem, I deleted the assertion code and added code that
returns an error that indicates tables have different definitions.

Reviewed By: Nayuta Yanagisawa