triggers are opened and tables used in triggers are prelocked in
open_tables(). But multi-update can detect what tables will actually
be updated only later, after all main tables are opened.

Meaning, if a table is used in multi-update, but is not actually updated,
its on-update treggers will be opened and tables will be prelocked,
even if it's unnecessary. This can cause more tables to be
write-locked than needed, causing read_only errors, privilege errors
and lock waits.

Fix: don't open/prelock triggers unless table->updating is true.
In multi-update after setting table->updating=true, do a second
open_tables() for newly added tables, if any.