Same as MDEV-29579. For some reason, libodbc does not clean up
properly if unloaded too early with the dlclose() of spider. So we add
UNIQUE symbols to spider so the spider does not reload in dlclose().

This change, however, uncovers some hidden problems in the spider
codebase, for which we move the initialisation of some spider global
variables into the initialisation of spider itself.

Spider has some global variables. Their initialisation should be done
in the initialisation of spider itself, otherwise, if spider were
re-initialised without these symbol being unloaded, the values could
be inconsistent and causing issues.

One such issue is caused by the variables
spider_mon_table_cache_version and spider_mon_table_cache_version_req.
They are used for resetting the spider monitoring table cache and have
initial values of 0 and 1 respectively. We have that always
spider_mon_table_cache_version_req >= spider_mon_table_cache_version,
and when the relation is strict, the cache is reset,
spider_mon_table_cache_version is brought to be equal to
spider_mon_table_cache_version_req, and the cache is searched for
matching table_name, db_name and link_idx. If the relation is equal,
no reset would happen and the cache would be searched directly.

When spider is re-inited without resetting the values of
spider_mon_table_cache_version and spider_mon_table_cache_version_req
that were set to be equal in the previous cache reset action, the
cache was emptied in the previous spider deinit, which would result in
HA_ERR_KEY_NOT_FOUND unexpectedly.

An alternative way to fix this issue would be to call the spider udf
spider_flush_mon_cache_table(), which increments
spider_mon_table_cache_version_req thus making sure the inequality is
strict. However, there's no reason for spider to initialise these
global variables on dlopen(), rather than on spider init, which is
cleaner and "purer".

To reproduce this issue, simply revert the changes involving the two
variables and then run:

mtr --no-reorder spider.ha{,_part}